I am writing this so women can understand the effects of believing that all men cheat has on them and how to address that distorted view of men. Most people like to talk about why men commit concubinage. My concern isn't why men cheat just like I don't think worrying about why people steal only will solve thievery. I think what will help better us is if women learn why the men who don't cheat avoid the temptation then they will be able to identify them better and date them. Here is a list of things I believe are characteristics of men who can't cheat.
1. To them it is STUPID because of the risks.
2. It is disrespectful to the person they are dating and to themselves.
3. They don't know how to do it without it being disrespectful or getting caught.
4. They are in a relationship, which is nurturing and respectful.
5. They are mature and experienced with women and don't feel they are missing anything in other women.
6. They have made a conscious decision to be with the woman they are with.
7. It is against their beliefs and they knew what they where getting into when they entered into a relationship.
8. They had a healthy dating experience and found a person they could spend their life with.
9. They aren't presented with the opportunity to cheat.
10. They think about the outcome of physical intimacy.
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